Something I absolutely hate is when people don't know how to own up to their own inadequacies and blame others for their own insecurities.

Grow up, please.

Sometimes you need to hear the truth from your friends and stop crying about how they "get on your case" all the time. Do you know why they get on your case? Because they care and probably because you are too much of a coward to do something about it on your own.

Now, it's up to you to grow some balls and see that not everyone is attacking you out of spite; rather, it's an effort to help you grow up.